Does he love me as much as I love him? Does he really want to engage with me? If it is normal to ask questions in love, being afraid can contribute to insidiously undermining a relationship. Indeed, both partners must be positive to move forward. And when you start asking too many questions, you get tired and it's the sentimental burn-out. The first instinct is of course to fight against his anxieties to save the relationship. So we must find some tricks to reassure and revive the flame. And above all try to calm this little voice that pushes us to subconsciously sabotage our relationship.
1- Do you like
It's such a simple concept that we tend to neglect it. If you doubt you, your half may feel it. So remember that you are great and do things that make you proud. You will radiate.
2- Do these little things that make you happy
On a daily basis, we do not think enough to do what we like. So we take the time to indulge ourselves, go buy a chocolate light in our favorite bakery, get an evening giggle in front of Game of Thrones, test this new Vietnamese restaurant that made us salivate. It does not matter. It's all about breaking your routine that can undermine morale. You will strengthen your emotional capital and your couple should be strengthened.
3- Do not neglect your needs
No, his well-being should not pass all the time before yours. Obviously, it counts for you to be happy in your turn. But your sleep, your diet or your intellectual stimulation counts as much as his own. By privileging his happiness, you will exhaust yourself and you will let go. So think of yourself first and foremost, it is essential.
4- Do not isolate yourself
Couples, we feel in a cocoon of love with our half and we leave the rest outside. But do not neglect your entourage. You have to be able to count on someone outside your couple to speak when you need it.
5- Be positive
Once the "honeymoon" period has passed, we tend to forget what attracted us to the other. The routine settles down and no longer takes time to remember why. So try to remember a little detail that made you crack when you met him. You will find this euphoria at the beginning.
6- Let go
It's so good to have a little restaurant with half of it from time to time. But most of the time, the problems of home and work follow us and we do not let ourselves go to 100%. So forget your worries and enjoy. You will feel like at the first appointments.
1- Do you like
It's such a simple concept that we tend to neglect it. If you doubt you, your half may feel it. So remember that you are great and do things that make you proud. You will radiate.
2- Do these little things that make you happy
On a daily basis, we do not think enough to do what we like. So we take the time to indulge ourselves, go buy a chocolate light in our favorite bakery, get an evening giggle in front of Game of Thrones, test this new Vietnamese restaurant that made us salivate. It does not matter. It's all about breaking your routine that can undermine morale. You will strengthen your emotional capital and your couple should be strengthened.
3- Do not neglect your needs
No, his well-being should not pass all the time before yours. Obviously, it counts for you to be happy in your turn. But your sleep, your diet or your intellectual stimulation counts as much as his own. By privileging his happiness, you will exhaust yourself and you will let go. So think of yourself first and foremost, it is essential.
4- Do not isolate yourself
Couples, we feel in a cocoon of love with our half and we leave the rest outside. But do not neglect your entourage. You have to be able to count on someone outside your couple to speak when you need it.
5- Be positive
Once the "honeymoon" period has passed, we tend to forget what attracted us to the other. The routine settles down and no longer takes time to remember why. So try to remember a little detail that made you crack when you met him. You will find this euphoria at the beginning.
6- Let go
It's so good to have a little restaurant with half of it from time to time. But most of the time, the problems of home and work follow us and we do not let ourselves go to 100%. So forget your worries and enjoy. You will feel like at the first appointments.
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